so the sun is setting on another adventure for me. In 2 weeks I'll be leaving South Africa - a bit earlier than I originally intended.
I've been offered a position as Director of the AIDS Awareness Foundation Youth Center back in Provo (Turks and Caicos) and I fell in love with the idea. The Center is just on the verge of opening and it will be a safe haven for youth to hang out, do homework or take part in some of the many activities I have planned! I'm so excited to be in charge of this incredible resource right from the beginning. Needless to say there is a lot of work to do to find out what the kids need and want. Once that's done we have to make sure there are funds to do it! It will be an incredible challenge to get everything running and make sure it's a success but I feel as though everything I've done since I left Uni has built up to this. Ever felt like there has been a really natural progression of things?
Anyway, I want to thank everyone who supported me along the way and followed my stories to this point. I'll definitely keep blogging the story of the Center and yes, relax, there will be pictures! While I'm on the topic, feel free to check out my Namibia pics to the right. It was the most incredible trip which was only intended to be a Visa run in the beginning! Not enough can be said for camping underneath the desert stars...
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Dani's ARK
The following post was written by my friend Danielle who is working with "Ambassadors in Sport" - a Christian organization who does similar work to Grassroot Soccer, working with disadvantaged youth to make this world a better place.
Dani and her husband Mike are both incredibly generous with their time and their hearts. Both are from the States but Dani has been here for 5 years. Mike is a newly trained doctor who arrived around the same time as I did and is now volunteering his time and energy wherever it is needed.
I thought it would be nice to hear a different story....
There are corners of the world I live in that never cease to break my heart. These are dark corners that oftentimes, I'd rather just walk by. Because if I walk in, I meet people whose lives make me hurt. Yet somehow their lives are also a breath of fresh hope that motivates me to go back.
This is my report on the state of one such corner somewhere. On the state of a small corner room in a large orphanage called the Ark. On the state of the world according to a few girls who have experienced more of the worst of it in their youths than I've personally experienced in my life time. I'm there at the ark twice a week. I've gotten used to the ark for five years. Ok, maybe that's not right. I've been to the Ark for five years but I've never gotten used to it.
The drive to the Ark is often a heavy one. We leave the office to hit the highway and rows of houses soon to into mounds of shacks. Emerging from the mounds of shacks, we see children running around unsupervised next to the highway, goats and cows wandering dangerously close to the yellow lines, and sometimes heavy black smoke if the shacks have caught on fire again. In the midst of this, we take an exit, and drive past rows of concrete tubing that people find shelter in, take a right turn, and start down the driveway of the Ark "City of Refuge". Along the drive way, kids wave already and teenagers sit listlessly on concrete blocks scratching with sticks in the dirt. We take a deep breath as we enter the gate, because before we even park the car has been swarmed. By children. Trying to direct the car into a spot as if we were at a crowded concert and not the only car in the lot. They pull on the door handles trying to help us out of the car as if we were celebrities. Reaching their hands inside the half open windows, to wave, to touch, to ask for that sweet left in the ash tray. They shout our names and come running across the field as if our simple acknowledgement of their existence was their most desperate need of the day. We open the car door and step out into an avalanche of hugs, of hands reaching, grabbing, needing to be loved. Needing to be spoken to. Needing to be smiled at. I am drained before I even leave the parking lot.
Somehow I manage to navigate the Velcro children and make my way back to the "Youth Girls" section, where at the moment 6 girls without mom's and dad's from the ages of 6-18 are living with a house mother who is 25. This week there were five girls. Lebu, a 6 year old light bulb, had been taken away by her step mother to attend her father's funeral. Her father is the only living relative left in her life. Her father was the only one left who loved her. He took her out of the Ark on the holidays. Now she will be a certified orphan- her stepmother hates her and will be glad to leave her at the Ark full time now. Trying out different hair styles in the dusty mirror in the corner, are the 13-year old twins from Congo, Prisill and Perci. They arrived 8 months ago when their father was killed in the Democratic Republic of Congo. They could not speak English and failed grade 8 and now are trying again. We sat on the floor this week and talked about HIV/AIDS and goals in life. They both said they wanted to go to University. I asked them what they wanted to study. Perci immediately replied "Reading!" What do you mean I asked. You want to teach people how to read? No she said. I want to learn how to read. You don't know how to read English? I assumed. No, I don't know how to read she said. Not French, not English, not Afrikaans. I asked her sister, Prisill, And you? Nope, not at all. Looks like soccer is going to have to take a backseat to reading lessons for the next few months. I think maybe we need to teach them how to read before we help them apply for university....
Sitting to the right of the twins and constantly trying to get a word in edgewise is Nandhipa, an 11 year old, who pulled me aside last week to quietly ask me when she will be coming to my house for a weekend. She also asked me if I could take her to get tested for HIV. I don't know what to do, because what will I do if she is positive, how do I help an 11 year old deal with that, while teaching two 13 year olds how to read and a 6 year old grieve the death of her father. I tell her that I'll think about it, knowing we will have to make sure a support system is in place for her first. Don't even ask me why she thinks she might need to get tested. I can't bare to tell you about what she's already been through.
Moving onto to Nandhipa's right, is Lindo, full name Nomlindo, a 7 year old with a heart of gold. I know that's cliché but there's no other way to say it. She is bored with our discussion about HIV/AIDS and life goals and so she wanders off and then comes back, and rests against my lap. Perci asks me where I was born. I say America. She asks me to tell her about America and I tell her it is cold there right now! I ask her where she was born even though I know, I think it is good to talk about our roots. Perci was born in Congo she says proudly. And you Prisill? She laughs at me, but proudly replies, Congo! Before I can ask Nandhipa is anxious to shout out, "And me! I was born in Durban! (A city on the East Coast of South Africa)." So she doesn't feel left out we turn to Lindo, "Where were you born Lindo?" She doesn't know and shakes her head and looks embarrassed. The twins start to laugh, how could you not know where you are born? I quickly shush them and tell Lindo that it's ok. I met her mother 3 years ago, when she was dying in the Ark clinic of AIDS. I'm pretty sure Lindo was born in South Africa, maybe even Cape Town. I squeeze her tightly and turn the conversation else where because I know she is also thinking of her mother.
Meanwhile, 16 year old Sylvia walks in from school. She attends school outside the Ark because the Ark doesn't have a high school. She is not doing well in school. Sylvia is very clever but she came from Congo 2 years ago, and English and Afrikaans is still a struggle for her. She asks me to help her with a project for her "Tourism" class. Sylvia wrote out her life story for me on five pages last week, we are going to use it both to help her work on her English (by editing it together) and work it into something she can share with others (you'll probably get it in an email) to help herself and others find healing and strength.
Somehow, though I should leave this corner room feeling heavy and drained, it always seems I leave this corner encouraged. Lightened by the the thankfulness that God has put these young women in my life. Yes a bit because it gives me people to help, but mostly because it puts me in awe of their own resilience and strength. And though some may wonder where God was when they went through these things, if you look in their eyes, you don't wonder where God is now, you see Him right there, right now, in those eyes. I'm not sure what we can do for these girls. I love each of them. They make my corner of the world brighter. I'm not sure how or what our little investments in their lives can do to impact them, but I know they deserve it. I know they deserve all my effort and energy to try to make their worlds a little brighter and remind them that though the world may have forgotten them in this little corner, of this little orphanage, in the little country of South Africa, God has not. Please say a prayer for each of them this week if you think of it. And in the dark corners of the world you live in, be that breath of fresh hope to the forgotten ones there, see God in their eyes, and be his messenger, his reminder, his megaphone of love.
In Christ,
Danielle Davidson
HIV/AIDS Program Coordinator
Ambassadors in Sport
Dani and her husband Mike are both incredibly generous with their time and their hearts. Both are from the States but Dani has been here for 5 years. Mike is a newly trained doctor who arrived around the same time as I did and is now volunteering his time and energy wherever it is needed.
I thought it would be nice to hear a different story....
There are corners of the world I live in that never cease to break my heart. These are dark corners that oftentimes, I'd rather just walk by. Because if I walk in, I meet people whose lives make me hurt. Yet somehow their lives are also a breath of fresh hope that motivates me to go back.
This is my report on the state of one such corner somewhere. On the state of a small corner room in a large orphanage called the Ark. On the state of the world according to a few girls who have experienced more of the worst of it in their youths than I've personally experienced in my life time. I'm there at the ark twice a week. I've gotten used to the ark for five years. Ok, maybe that's not right. I've been to the Ark for five years but I've never gotten used to it.
The drive to the Ark is often a heavy one. We leave the office to hit the highway and rows of houses soon to into mounds of shacks. Emerging from the mounds of shacks, we see children running around unsupervised next to the highway, goats and cows wandering dangerously close to the yellow lines, and sometimes heavy black smoke if the shacks have caught on fire again. In the midst of this, we take an exit, and drive past rows of concrete tubing that people find shelter in, take a right turn, and start down the driveway of the Ark "City of Refuge". Along the drive way, kids wave already and teenagers sit listlessly on concrete blocks scratching with sticks in the dirt. We take a deep breath as we enter the gate, because before we even park the car has been swarmed. By children. Trying to direct the car into a spot as if we were at a crowded concert and not the only car in the lot. They pull on the door handles trying to help us out of the car as if we were celebrities. Reaching their hands inside the half open windows, to wave, to touch, to ask for that sweet left in the ash tray. They shout our names and come running across the field as if our simple acknowledgement of their existence was their most desperate need of the day. We open the car door and step out into an avalanche of hugs, of hands reaching, grabbing, needing to be loved. Needing to be spoken to. Needing to be smiled at. I am drained before I even leave the parking lot.
Somehow I manage to navigate the Velcro children and make my way back to the "Youth Girls" section, where at the moment 6 girls without mom's and dad's from the ages of 6-18 are living with a house mother who is 25. This week there were five girls. Lebu, a 6 year old light bulb, had been taken away by her step mother to attend her father's funeral. Her father is the only living relative left in her life. Her father was the only one left who loved her. He took her out of the Ark on the holidays. Now she will be a certified orphan- her stepmother hates her and will be glad to leave her at the Ark full time now. Trying out different hair styles in the dusty mirror in the corner, are the 13-year old twins from Congo, Prisill and Perci. They arrived 8 months ago when their father was killed in the Democratic Republic of Congo. They could not speak English and failed grade 8 and now are trying again. We sat on the floor this week and talked about HIV/AIDS and goals in life. They both said they wanted to go to University. I asked them what they wanted to study. Perci immediately replied "Reading!" What do you mean I asked. You want to teach people how to read? No she said. I want to learn how to read. You don't know how to read English? I assumed. No, I don't know how to read she said. Not French, not English, not Afrikaans. I asked her sister, Prisill, And you? Nope, not at all. Looks like soccer is going to have to take a backseat to reading lessons for the next few months. I think maybe we need to teach them how to read before we help them apply for university....
Sitting to the right of the twins and constantly trying to get a word in edgewise is Nandhipa, an 11 year old, who pulled me aside last week to quietly ask me when she will be coming to my house for a weekend. She also asked me if I could take her to get tested for HIV. I don't know what to do, because what will I do if she is positive, how do I help an 11 year old deal with that, while teaching two 13 year olds how to read and a 6 year old grieve the death of her father. I tell her that I'll think about it, knowing we will have to make sure a support system is in place for her first. Don't even ask me why she thinks she might need to get tested. I can't bare to tell you about what she's already been through.
Moving onto to Nandhipa's right, is Lindo, full name Nomlindo, a 7 year old with a heart of gold. I know that's cliché but there's no other way to say it. She is bored with our discussion about HIV/AIDS and life goals and so she wanders off and then comes back, and rests against my lap. Perci asks me where I was born. I say America. She asks me to tell her about America and I tell her it is cold there right now! I ask her where she was born even though I know, I think it is good to talk about our roots. Perci was born in Congo she says proudly. And you Prisill? She laughs at me, but proudly replies, Congo! Before I can ask Nandhipa is anxious to shout out, "And me! I was born in Durban! (A city on the East Coast of South Africa)." So she doesn't feel left out we turn to Lindo, "Where were you born Lindo?" She doesn't know and shakes her head and looks embarrassed. The twins start to laugh, how could you not know where you are born? I quickly shush them and tell Lindo that it's ok. I met her mother 3 years ago, when she was dying in the Ark clinic of AIDS. I'm pretty sure Lindo was born in South Africa, maybe even Cape Town. I squeeze her tightly and turn the conversation else where because I know she is also thinking of her mother.
Meanwhile, 16 year old Sylvia walks in from school. She attends school outside the Ark because the Ark doesn't have a high school. She is not doing well in school. Sylvia is very clever but she came from Congo 2 years ago, and English and Afrikaans is still a struggle for her. She asks me to help her with a project for her "Tourism" class. Sylvia wrote out her life story for me on five pages last week, we are going to use it both to help her work on her English (by editing it together) and work it into something she can share with others (you'll probably get it in an email) to help herself and others find healing and strength.
Somehow, though I should leave this corner room feeling heavy and drained, it always seems I leave this corner encouraged. Lightened by the the thankfulness that God has put these young women in my life. Yes a bit because it gives me people to help, but mostly because it puts me in awe of their own resilience and strength. And though some may wonder where God was when they went through these things, if you look in their eyes, you don't wonder where God is now, you see Him right there, right now, in those eyes. I'm not sure what we can do for these girls. I love each of them. They make my corner of the world brighter. I'm not sure how or what our little investments in their lives can do to impact them, but I know they deserve it. I know they deserve all my effort and energy to try to make their worlds a little brighter and remind them that though the world may have forgotten them in this little corner, of this little orphanage, in the little country of South Africa, God has not. Please say a prayer for each of them this week if you think of it. And in the dark corners of the world you live in, be that breath of fresh hope to the forgotten ones there, see God in their eyes, and be his messenger, his reminder, his megaphone of love.
In Christ,
Danielle Davidson
HIV/AIDS Program Coordinator
Ambassadors in Sport
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
The Other Side
I decided it was time to share another side of South Africa. Till now, most of my stories have been of my enjoyable, optimistic experiences. I often see sadness and desperation, but then find it hard to recount it through writing. However this is the bigger part of life for many people here. So I believe it’s important to share it.
Background: The Townships
(as a disclaimer, I just want to say I really don’t know a lot about the History of SA. This is what I’ve gathered through conversation and a lot may be fairly subjective. Please feel free to comment or correct me if you see obvious errors! )
I suppose I really should explain what the townships are like. In other countries, like Zambia, they are called “compounds”. Here they are the areas where either the ‘blacks’ or the ‘coloureds’ live rather exclusively. Please not that the term ‘coloured’ is not offensive in SA and refers to either a lighter-skinned black person or a person of mixed ethnicity. During Apartheid (60’s and 70’s up until a mere 15 years ago), those residing in the townships could not leave without a pass. A pass was given for work which for men usually meant mining, for women, housekeeping. Work within the townships was possible, for example as a street vendor, but there wasn’t much option (still isn’t - unemployment in townships generally stands around 65-75%). Once the “walls of apartheid” came down” inhabitants could leave the townships freely but there was no proper transition for these millions of people into the change that had occured in the cities during all those years of segregation. Is it any wonder they couldn’t didn’t have the skills or the knowledge to that would lead to success in this new world?
Let me take a step back and describe the living conditions in a township. It consists of thousands of houses packed into incredibly close proximity. The houses are usually either tiny concrete buildings or “shacks”: houses with walls of scrap metal, wood or poster board and usually a roof of sheet metal on top. Some have running water, some use the communal toilets and taps scattered every so often within their section. There are often intricate systems of spliced wiring in place; electric cables of multiple colours sweeping overhead on different streets like a ticker tape parade. The wires are kept high by long tree branches. I asked a co-worker if the government has come along and tried to take it down. He said they don’t bother because they know “one day they take down the wires, the next day, they will be up again.”
If you drive out of Cape Town, the townships begin just outside what I suppose are the city limits; like a desolate suburbia that stretches on for miles. Children play soccer on every inch of space available. Up close, it looks like a happy, though impoverished, place. People laughing, dancing and hugging, goats wandering through the streets, music blaring from God knows where. But when you take a step back and look at the enormity of this third world, it can become overwhelming, depressing, infuriating, incapacitating… and ultimately, completely embarrassing that we as humans have allowed this to happen.
The Townships and me.
As you probably know, I’ve been the only intern in Cape Town up until recently. I never had the comfort of being in a group. This site also lacks much of the infrastructure the other sites already have.
Like a car.
This means I usually can’t be in the townships to ensure the program that is already in place, is being carried out correctly or at all. I should be in the townships of Khayelitsha and Philippi often, meeting at least once a week with our trainers, going to the schools to observe what is happening, looking for new schools to run our program in the new school year and figuring out the logistics of setting up a street league. (This is the bulk of the job for the interns in the other South African sites). Even with a car, this would all take place with the accompaniment of my trainers who live in Khayelitsha.
My First Trip
Back in October, I was completely frustrated at working in the office and I decided I would take a chance and get myself out to Khayelitsha with my co-worker, Lubabalo (Babs). We had scheduled a meeting with our trainers (some of whom I hadn’t even had the chance to meet). We went to the main station in Cape Town, got into a minibus and started off along the highway, to his home.
We chatted through most of the trip (about 30 mins when the traffic is good) but were interrupted about halfway along when we saw a fire blazing out of control along the other side of the highway. Two shacks were burning wildly and I could see the residents huddled up on a hill, watching everything they had in the world, disappear. I thought about this situation in North America: a fire devastates a family which loses a lifetime of photos, souvenirs amongst other things. But they have insurance, savings, and family or friends who can actually afford to help us out a little when disaster strikes. I asked Babs what would happen to the family we were looking at on the hill. He told me they would live with friends and neighbours and a meal for one would become a meal for two until they got back on their feet. “They will probably stay with relatives – that’s what I did.”
I furrowed my brow as I imagine I often do – it’s hard to understand the quick, muffled English of a Xhosa speaker. It was true – Babs’ own shack had burned down in June 2006. He was still living on his sister’s property.
When we arrived I saw that Babs (or someone) had constructed a meagre dwelling out of mostly scrap metal. He had water and electricity and it was even divided into 2 rooms, a bedroom and a kitchen/everything else room. His sister had a concrete home next door. Babs said after his home burned down he only had the clothes on his back. The non-profit organization he had been working for 2-3 years, could only give him 150 rand (about $20) and a couple of t-shirts. He stayed with his girlfriend and I could see now that he’s nearing 30, he wishes he had more to give her… and more to show for himself.
Khayelitsha
Obviously Babs’ house didn’t provide a formal setting for our meeting (we sat on milk crates in a small room that doubled as a kitchen and living room) but it was productive nonetheless. It was great to finally see all of the trainers together! The usually couldn’t afford the $.75 ride into the city). They were all happy that I had successfully made it with no incidents!
Afterward Babs escorted me to the minibus stop. He actually came with me all the way through my transfer to ensure I got on the correct bus safely. Babs informed me that the bus ‘station’ (really just a mess of busses surrounded by food stalls) was the most dangerous place in Khayelitsha. It was still light and to be honest I didn’t feel that uncomfortable. Although I must say, Babs was constantly looking around and seemed pretty nervous.
Anyway, on that day, if you look at “the facts”, nothing happened. I didn’t even feel that scared. But, as many people have confirmed for me, there is always someone watching your every move, wondering what you’re carrying in your bag or what’s in your pocket. If there is an ‘incident’ it is usually opportunistic crime. Meaning, the perpetrator isn’t our usual definition of a ‘bad’ person waiting on the street corner looking for someone to score from. It may be their first crime. Desperation can make people do impulsive things.
Why I went back to this story …
I originally wrote this entry shortly after that trip and always meant to go back, read it with fresh eyes and ensure I was painting the proper picture. I got busy, had more exciting and positive experiences to log in, and so I basically let it sit. Recently, I was mugged for first time outside our offices downtown. The guy only got a phone I had borrowed from Ryan and I wasn’t hurt. But it shook me up a lot. Suffice it to say that the incident has changed me and certainly changed the feel of my experience here. Crime is a part of life in South Africa. One I was really hoping I wouldn’t be involved in, but just like HIV, when it affects one it affects us all. I’m hoping to use this as a chance to renew my faith in the work I’m doing, turn a negative situation into something positive. But it’s hard and until I really figure out how I feel, writing is the best I can do.
The one thing I ask is that you take a minute to be grateful for something those of you in North America probably have more of than you realize: safety and security. It’s certainly something I didn’t give too much thought too previously, but something I hope never to take for granted again.
Background: The Townships
(as a disclaimer, I just want to say I really don’t know a lot about the History of SA. This is what I’ve gathered through conversation and a lot may be fairly subjective. Please feel free to comment or correct me if you see obvious errors! )
I suppose I really should explain what the townships are like. In other countries, like Zambia, they are called “compounds”. Here they are the areas where either the ‘blacks’ or the ‘coloureds’ live rather exclusively. Please not that the term ‘coloured’ is not offensive in SA and refers to either a lighter-skinned black person or a person of mixed ethnicity. During Apartheid (60’s and 70’s up until a mere 15 years ago), those residing in the townships could not leave without a pass. A pass was given for work which for men usually meant mining, for women, housekeeping. Work within the townships was possible, for example as a street vendor, but there wasn’t much option (still isn’t - unemployment in townships generally stands around 65-75%). Once the “walls of apartheid” came down” inhabitants could leave the townships freely but there was no proper transition for these millions of people into the change that had occured in the cities during all those years of segregation. Is it any wonder they couldn’t didn’t have the skills or the knowledge to that would lead to success in this new world?
Let me take a step back and describe the living conditions in a township. It consists of thousands of houses packed into incredibly close proximity. The houses are usually either tiny concrete buildings or “shacks”: houses with walls of scrap metal, wood or poster board and usually a roof of sheet metal on top. Some have running water, some use the communal toilets and taps scattered every so often within their section. There are often intricate systems of spliced wiring in place; electric cables of multiple colours sweeping overhead on different streets like a ticker tape parade. The wires are kept high by long tree branches. I asked a co-worker if the government has come along and tried to take it down. He said they don’t bother because they know “one day they take down the wires, the next day, they will be up again.”
If you drive out of Cape Town, the townships begin just outside what I suppose are the city limits; like a desolate suburbia that stretches on for miles. Children play soccer on every inch of space available. Up close, it looks like a happy, though impoverished, place. People laughing, dancing and hugging, goats wandering through the streets, music blaring from God knows where. But when you take a step back and look at the enormity of this third world, it can become overwhelming, depressing, infuriating, incapacitating… and ultimately, completely embarrassing that we as humans have allowed this to happen.
The Townships and me.
As you probably know, I’ve been the only intern in Cape Town up until recently. I never had the comfort of being in a group. This site also lacks much of the infrastructure the other sites already have.
Like a car.
This means I usually can’t be in the townships to ensure the program that is already in place, is being carried out correctly or at all. I should be in the townships of Khayelitsha and Philippi often, meeting at least once a week with our trainers, going to the schools to observe what is happening, looking for new schools to run our program in the new school year and figuring out the logistics of setting up a street league. (This is the bulk of the job for the interns in the other South African sites). Even with a car, this would all take place with the accompaniment of my trainers who live in Khayelitsha.
My First Trip
Back in October, I was completely frustrated at working in the office and I decided I would take a chance and get myself out to Khayelitsha with my co-worker, Lubabalo (Babs). We had scheduled a meeting with our trainers (some of whom I hadn’t even had the chance to meet). We went to the main station in Cape Town, got into a minibus and started off along the highway, to his home.
We chatted through most of the trip (about 30 mins when the traffic is good) but were interrupted about halfway along when we saw a fire blazing out of control along the other side of the highway. Two shacks were burning wildly and I could see the residents huddled up on a hill, watching everything they had in the world, disappear. I thought about this situation in North America: a fire devastates a family which loses a lifetime of photos, souvenirs amongst other things. But they have insurance, savings, and family or friends who can actually afford to help us out a little when disaster strikes. I asked Babs what would happen to the family we were looking at on the hill. He told me they would live with friends and neighbours and a meal for one would become a meal for two until they got back on their feet. “They will probably stay with relatives – that’s what I did.”
I furrowed my brow as I imagine I often do – it’s hard to understand the quick, muffled English of a Xhosa speaker. It was true – Babs’ own shack had burned down in June 2006. He was still living on his sister’s property.
When we arrived I saw that Babs (or someone) had constructed a meagre dwelling out of mostly scrap metal. He had water and electricity and it was even divided into 2 rooms, a bedroom and a kitchen/everything else room. His sister had a concrete home next door. Babs said after his home burned down he only had the clothes on his back. The non-profit organization he had been working for 2-3 years, could only give him 150 rand (about $20) and a couple of t-shirts. He stayed with his girlfriend and I could see now that he’s nearing 30, he wishes he had more to give her… and more to show for himself.
Khayelitsha
Obviously Babs’ house didn’t provide a formal setting for our meeting (we sat on milk crates in a small room that doubled as a kitchen and living room) but it was productive nonetheless. It was great to finally see all of the trainers together! The usually couldn’t afford the $.75 ride into the city). They were all happy that I had successfully made it with no incidents!
Afterward Babs escorted me to the minibus stop. He actually came with me all the way through my transfer to ensure I got on the correct bus safely. Babs informed me that the bus ‘station’ (really just a mess of busses surrounded by food stalls) was the most dangerous place in Khayelitsha. It was still light and to be honest I didn’t feel that uncomfortable. Although I must say, Babs was constantly looking around and seemed pretty nervous.
Anyway, on that day, if you look at “the facts”, nothing happened. I didn’t even feel that scared. But, as many people have confirmed for me, there is always someone watching your every move, wondering what you’re carrying in your bag or what’s in your pocket. If there is an ‘incident’ it is usually opportunistic crime. Meaning, the perpetrator isn’t our usual definition of a ‘bad’ person waiting on the street corner looking for someone to score from. It may be their first crime. Desperation can make people do impulsive things.
Why I went back to this story …
I originally wrote this entry shortly after that trip and always meant to go back, read it with fresh eyes and ensure I was painting the proper picture. I got busy, had more exciting and positive experiences to log in, and so I basically let it sit. Recently, I was mugged for first time outside our offices downtown. The guy only got a phone I had borrowed from Ryan and I wasn’t hurt. But it shook me up a lot. Suffice it to say that the incident has changed me and certainly changed the feel of my experience here. Crime is a part of life in South Africa. One I was really hoping I wouldn’t be involved in, but just like HIV, when it affects one it affects us all. I’m hoping to use this as a chance to renew my faith in the work I’m doing, turn a negative situation into something positive. But it’s hard and until I really figure out how I feel, writing is the best I can do.
The one thing I ask is that you take a minute to be grateful for something those of you in North America probably have more of than you realize: safety and security. It’s certainly something I didn’t give too much thought too previously, but something I hope never to take for granted again.
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Back from Zambia
G'day
just got back from Zambia - what an amazing experience. I must say, it wasn't all roses. For starters, my living situation was pretty scummy at best. Filthy would be an appropriate word. And I don't know if any of you have heard but there's a major energy crisis is Southern Africa at the mo, which meant large chunks of time with no power. Taking a cold shower is not fun at the best of times, let alone in the dark.
But aside from having an amazing time visiting interns and getting to see Victoria Falls (pictures to come!) I was thoroughly impressed with our training course. "Master Trainers" training course to be exact. Yes, I am now a certified "Master Trainer." I will explain more of that when I really get to know what it means :) We went back and forth between improving the Grassroot Soccer curriculum, team building and exercises in "thinking outside the box", which I loved.
Just wanted to let everyone know that I made it back safe and sound! and here's a little side "small world" story that rivals the one of seeing my ex-Mcgill teamate in the middle of a lake in Taiwan:
I went to see Zambia get annialated 5-1 (vs Cote D'Ivoire I think) last week at a bar in Lusaka. I was sitting next to a friend when I overheard "Canadian" and turned to see her about to intro me to another ex-pat in the crowd. He said "what part of Canada?" to me and I said Halifax. I got a raised eyebrow to the extent that I thought he was one of those snobby Toronto types that forgot Canada had an East Coast but then he said "where'd you go to High School?" I said QE and it turned out he went to St Pats (across the street from QE). I didn't recognize him so I said, " Well I live down the Purcells's Cove Road so I wasn't even supposed to go there". I got 2 raised eyebrows this time and he said he lived on Parkhill Drive (about a 10 minutes walk from where I grew up).
To make a long story short- this guys' name is Nico, he went to school with my brothers and I went to school with his sister Rachel. He's been to my house, met my mom, and I'm pretty sure I can remember him as a little kid. SO BIZARRE. In the middle of Zambia, I meet someone from home. We probably know about 200 people in common.
I'll get those pictures rollin in. Till then ...
just got back from Zambia - what an amazing experience. I must say, it wasn't all roses. For starters, my living situation was pretty scummy at best. Filthy would be an appropriate word. And I don't know if any of you have heard but there's a major energy crisis is Southern Africa at the mo, which meant large chunks of time with no power. Taking a cold shower is not fun at the best of times, let alone in the dark.
But aside from having an amazing time visiting interns and getting to see Victoria Falls (pictures to come!) I was thoroughly impressed with our training course. "Master Trainers" training course to be exact. Yes, I am now a certified "Master Trainer." I will explain more of that when I really get to know what it means :) We went back and forth between improving the Grassroot Soccer curriculum, team building and exercises in "thinking outside the box", which I loved.
Just wanted to let everyone know that I made it back safe and sound! and here's a little side "small world" story that rivals the one of seeing my ex-Mcgill teamate in the middle of a lake in Taiwan:
I went to see Zambia get annialated 5-1 (vs Cote D'Ivoire I think) last week at a bar in Lusaka. I was sitting next to a friend when I overheard "Canadian" and turned to see her about to intro me to another ex-pat in the crowd. He said "what part of Canada?" to me and I said Halifax. I got a raised eyebrow to the extent that I thought he was one of those snobby Toronto types that forgot Canada had an East Coast but then he said "where'd you go to High School?" I said QE and it turned out he went to St Pats (across the street from QE). I didn't recognize him so I said, " Well I live down the Purcells's Cove Road so I wasn't even supposed to go there". I got 2 raised eyebrows this time and he said he lived on Parkhill Drive (about a 10 minutes walk from where I grew up).
To make a long story short- this guys' name is Nico, he went to school with my brothers and I went to school with his sister Rachel. He's been to my house, met my mom, and I'm pretty sure I can remember him as a little kid. SO BIZARRE. In the middle of Zambia, I meet someone from home. We probably know about 200 people in common.
I'll get those pictures rollin in. Till then ...
Friday, January 11, 2008
In Like a Lamb
Happy New Year!
just in case anyone out there is still reading this :)
I promise to get on the ball soon, however, today won't be the day. Things are slow for the moment in Cape Town. Basically everything shuts down in South Africa from December 15th - Jan 15th as half the population makes a long trek home (usually Western Cape province to Eastern Cape province) to see family. The schools don't get going till next week and even then a lot of kids aren't back yet. The kids who are here aren't settled enough for programs to start.
So that means we get going slowly as well. Grassroot Soccer took advantage of this lull (as it's similar around most of southern africa at least) to hold our Master Training of Trainers course in Zambia. That's where I am headed tomorrow! Some of you may remember me saying I was going to Zam originally and you would be correct. I was only placed in Cape Town in June. So I finally get to see where I would have been - a place that's a little more, well, African.
I probably won't have internet, or if I do it will be reminicent of the days of dial up. In fact, it probably is dial up. So I'll be back on my blog in Feb. No doubt with lots of pretty pictures. I'll try to throw something in here just to make this a little more interesting. Hope everyone's year is off to a great start, more to come soon!
2 of our 4 trainers in Western Cape, Wewe and Lele
taken the same day at a tournament in Cape Flats
Saturday, November 17, 2007
Shangri-La
I love a good road trip.
That's why when GRS asked me to drive 10 hours to our central city location ofBloemfontein
With only 2 days notice, I packed a rental car full of soccer balls and jerseys for the trainers and set off fromCape Town
-some kind of large baboon-like monkey crossing my path then perching on the side of the road overlooking some mountains (wish I could’ve stopped for a picture!)
-road kill was not the usual porcupine or skunk but a massive 3ft lizard
-beautiful weather the entire day with only an hour’s interruption for a massively entertaining lightning storm
-the first Hobo I ever saw; not a hitchhiker - this guy was scraggly and just walking in the middle of nowhere… as I recently learned Hobo stands for “homeward bound” and I can say with great certainty that this guy was IT.
-missing by about 20 mins some kind of explosion of container trucks – I saw the skeletons of 2 Macks on the side of the road, possibly hit by lightning
That's why when GRS asked me to drive 10 hours to our central city location of
With only 2 days notice, I packed a rental car full of soccer balls and jerseys for the trainers and set off from
-some kind of large baboon-like monkey crossing my path then perching on the side of the road overlooking some mountains (wish I could’ve stopped for a picture!)
-road kill was not the usual porcupine or skunk but a massive 3ft lizard
-beautiful weather the entire day with only an hour’s interruption for a massively entertaining lightning storm
-the first Hobo I ever saw; not a hitchhiker - this guy was scraggly and just walking in the middle of nowhere… as I recently learned Hobo stands for “homeward bound” and I can say with great certainty that this guy was IT.
-missing by about 20 mins some kind of explosion of container trucks – I saw the skeletons of 2 Macks on the side of the road, possibly hit by lightning
Ok so the last one was a bit freaky, but as you can see, it wasn’t your usual Sunday drive.
I arrived in Bloem at 7:30 pm and was immediately off to a soccer game. 10 000 people in the stadium for a local Pro team – Celtics vs Sundowns. 
The fans were manic. The quality of soccer…meh, not so good. But so enjoyable anyway. A little hectic in the crowd, had to keep your wits about you with so many people. Usually they play in the township and that's even more unruly but regardless we left a bit early to ensure safe passage out.
LESOTHO ("Le-soo-too")
The next morning we set off theLesotho
The next morning we set off the
The people in our car to Lesotho were each from a different country!
This pic is from the border crossing.
Passports from the USA, France, Canada, SA and Botswana.
Passports from the USA, France, Canada, SA and Botswana.
We soon arrived at the field for the tournament and helped set up tents for the next day. The tournament was soccer based but the main purpose was really to promote testing of HIV status. We had 14 tents for counselors to test individuals between soccer games. Seems very unorthodox to those of us from North America, but events like this work wonders for a community where HIV is found in every third person and there can be serious consequences to openly living with HIV. 
The next day took off in a fury of kids arriving in 15 seat mini-buses, blaring music and ready for action! School teams (just a random assortment of students really) had a packed day of playing soccer and participating in GRS games which taught them about HIV. The thought of living with a disease as detrimental as AIDS is enough to overwhelm even the most grounded of people. Imagine throwing it into a family where a) sex is simply not discussed, b) promiscuity, though common, is absolutely abhorred and c) because of poor knowledge, an HIV positive status causes most people to assume you engage frequently in drugs, alcohol and sex with the wrong people. These factors bring a shame to your family unlike anything we could appreciate in western society. Living communally, as the great majority of people do in Sub-Saharan Africa, means you can be shunned from everyone in your life, left to deal with inevitably failing health on your own.
This is why we do what we do. We carry messages like ‘With help, you can live a long and healthy life with HIV!” and “We must support our loved ones through no matter what”. We break down misconceptions about how HIV is transmitted, and let people know that those who are positive are not ‘bad’ people. The games we played at the tournament explained concepts like the Immune System and how treatment medication (ARVs) work. Find the Ball explained that you can only know your status by having a blood test (readily available on that day!) and also let the children know where else they can be tested and receive counseling.
We Were Treated Like Royalty… Till Royalty Showed Up.
Between playing soccer, our activities and just getting together with other schools (events like
this rarely happen) the kids had an amazing time. I can personally attest for this as I ran the feedback sessions at the end of the day :) All the students thanked us (the facilitators) and fought again and again for pictures of everyone to be taken together. Then, a special surprise came when a helicopter suddenly swept across the open valley, circled a few times and landed a few hundred meters away. The King of
There is so much more to say as the weekend didn’t end there. In fact, that was only Friday! The other interns and I backpacked toward the center of
Hlala kakule – stay well (Xhosa)
Sunday, October 28, 2007
What are you doing over there?
Beautiful isn't it?
This was taken from a township called Khayelitsha, about 30 mins from Cape Town.I suppose I really should explain what the townships are like. In other countries, like Zambia, they are sometimes called "compounds". They look like areas you see on TV when some B List celebrity shuffles through a community speaking about the Foster Parents Plan. In South Africa, historically they are the areas where either the 'blacks' or the 'coloureds'* were relegated to in the days of Apartheid (the '60's and '70's up until a mere 15 years ago). Khayelitsha is one of the more dangerous places in South Africa. Don't quite get that feeling from the picture though huh?
*(the term “coloured” is not offensive in SA and it refers to either a lighter-skinned black person or a person of other ethnicity such as Malaysian)
A book was recently published (by Penguin) called Khayelitsha - told by a white man who either lived there or spent a lot of time there. It would definitely be an interesting read for anyone wanting to know a real experience.
This is a good time to checkout my other blog at www.grassrootsoccer.org (see link in top right hand side of this page. I’ve just put in an entry with some good pictures and a pretty thorough explanation of what’s going on at this site.
Basically (as that blog says), things started off slow here with work. I did as much as I could, tried to think of jobs that would take us further, but with a lack of infrastructure, I kept hitting walls.
Saved
Thankfully though, and somewhat miraculously, Dr. Paul Roux found me and asked if I would be interested in working with him at the paediatric ward of the Groote Schuur public hospital in the city. Well, he ‘found me’ in his own house – I am staying with him and his family.
But the amazing thing is I was not meant to be living here in the first place. A series of fortunate events brought me here through other connections. It all worked out very well! I hadn’t even met him in my first weeks of staying here; he was away at a conference. On his first night back we spoke about our backgrounds and within minutes it was established that I would be perfect to help out at the hospital with a few projects.
My other job
Basically I go in with him a few days a week and work with either Ludwig – a German med student in his residency who is doing a retrospective study on HIV and tuberculosis or Kate, a former Math Professor at UCT who retired early to dedicate her life to public health. She runs a beadwork project called BeadsPositive which provides about 150 HIV+ mothers, who otherwise have no source of income, a chance to make enough to feed their children and pay for their medication.
Paul (Dr. Roux) is the co-founder of an amazing non-profit called KidzPositive which provides care for HIV Positive children and their families. He is also the co-founder of PATA – Paediatric AIDS Treatment for
Journalist extraordinaire
I have been invited to PATA's annual conference in
I still am heavily involved with GRS Cape Town (which is why you must read my other blog…!). Hopefully this gives you a better idea of how my life changes every day and why I can never seem to easily sum it up!
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